Thursday, October 30, 2008

Tea Anyone?

This is the cutest thing, the other morning R took a shower, so when she was out, I sent he off to her room to get dressed... This is what I found. R, no naked shots included, was having a tea party and Cali was the guest of honor. What a great sport! She must have really enjoyed her tea b/c when I came home from work at the end of the day, I found the purple tea pot in the picture a bit chewed. Or should I say, used!

 
 
 

Awana Costume Party

Tonight was our costume party at Awana. There were so many great ideas that the kids had and the outfits they came in. P and R both were picked for one of the winners in the Sparks and Cubbies group for best costume. I was really shocked since P wore his Pikachu costume and R wore the White Lion costume from J when he was little. Maybe it was the little dollups of face paint they had or the cute smiles, but they both received BIG HUGE bars of Kit Kats for mommy and daddy. Oh, I mean for them :0) J was Batman and I actually thought he looked really good with his "big" muscles! And then there is the biggest child of all, me! I was the Wicked Witch of the West and I'd have to say, minus the "regular" broom everyone got a kick out of, I did pretty good.

 
 
 

You Are God's Pumpkin

I found this today on my e-mail and was thinking about me being the squishy little seed inside the pumpkin. But then I had to smile b/c after I just ate a ton of seeds the other day, it reminded me of how God takes the squishy little seed and makes me clean and drys me out so I can become yummy. It reminded me to praise God for how great he has made me and how thankful I am for his willingness to fix the squishiness.
I think when we carve pumpkins tonight I will read this to the kids to remind them of this principle.

You Are God's Pumpkin
This devotional was written by Kelly McFadden

God has united you with Christ Jesus. For our benefit God made him to be wisdom itself. Christ made us right with God; he made us pure and holy, and he freed us from sin. Therefore, as the Scriptures say, "If you boast, boast only about the Lord."—1 Corinthians 1:30-31

For most of the country, the crisp cool air of autumn is upon us. A sure sign of autumn is that Christmas decorations are popping up everywhere in retail stores. Halloween costumes and disguises are sold out from shops as trick-or-treaters are ready to take over the streets. A popular symbol of both harvest time and Halloween is the pumpkin. I was thinking recently that being a Christian is a lot like being a pumpkin. Perhaps you are visualizing this orange, round vegetable and wondering how you could ever be compared to one of these squashes! Simply put, like a child chooses a pumpkin to carve and mold an image upon, so God carves and molds His own unique design in you.

The Scriptures tell us that the Lord chooses us. He lifts us up and washes the dirt from our skin. Then he opens us, connecting deep inside to scoop out all the slimy, yucky stuff, including seeds of doubt, spite, lies, fear, etc. Then He carves a new creation, and makes our faces shine by putting His light inside for all to see.

Sometimes I feel like I don't want my light to shine because I am ashamed of a thought or action or pattern in my life. I try to hide the light Christ has put in me, and blend in with the crowd. What I forget is that when God carved me, created me, and gave me His Son, I no longer had to count on my own strength. I can count on the Lord's. It is He who washes me clean; it is He who gives me a spirit of strength and perseverance; it is He who makes me pure; it is He who frees me from sin; and it is He who gives me hope. When I realize that my part of the equation is to rely on His strength and power, then I can do as Scriptures say, and shine His light through the power of the Holy Spirit.

What starts as an everyday squash turns into a lantern of light. What starts as an everyday person turns into a beacon of hope for all to see. At times, it is hard to imagine that we can be cleansed through Jesus. As the Scripture says, Christ has made us right with God. He has purified us and freed us from sin. Through our union with Christ, we are given the light and wisdom of the Holy Spirit who enters and dwells in our lives. It is He who picked you out and carved you just the way He wants you. So make sure you keep your lantern lit for all to see.

GOING DEEPER:
1. What sins are in your life that you need to release and allow the Lord to scoop out for you?

2. Each time you see a pumpkin this autumn, think through why it is so important for you to be a vessel of light representing our Lord.

FURTHER READING:
Psalm 19:7-10; Colossians 2:3; 1 Thessalonians 4:3-7

 

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

2008 Edition - About Me

1.  What time did you get up this morning?  5:45am

2.  Diamonds or pearls?  diamonds first, then pearls

3.  Last movie you saw at the cinema? Kung Fu Panda

4.  What is your favorite TV show?  Brothers & Sisters, Greys Anatomy, ER

5.  What do you usually have for breakfast? Oatmeal & Yogurt

6.  What is your middle name? Marie

7.  What food do you dislike?  Mushrooms

8.  What is your favorite CD?  i pod shuffle, there are too many to name.


9.  What kind of car do you drive? Dodge Grand Caravan

10.  Favorite sandwich?  Turkey

11.  What characteristic do you despise? hypocritical


12.  Favorite item of clothing? sweatshirt, zip up with a hood


13.  If you could go anywhere in the world on vacation, where would you go? 
      Alaska

14.  Favorite brand of clothing? don't have one Gap


15.  Where would you retire to? south western state. hot and dry.


16.  Your most memorable birthday? last year. i turned 29, not 30!

17.  Favorite sport to watch? Cubbies and Bears


18.  Furthest place you are sending this? chi town


19.  Person you expect to send it back first? ?


20.  When is your birthday? January 30

21.  Are you a morning glory or a night owl? night owl


22.  What is your shoe size? 6
 

23.  Pets? 1 puppy, 1 fish


24.  Any new and exciting news you'd like to share with us? I just ran the Chicago Marathon

25.  What did you want to be when you were little? veteranerian


26.  How are you today? sore, working out hurts


27.  What is your favorite candy? kit kat, heath bar


28.  What is your favorite flower? peoney


29.  What is a day on the calendar you are looking forward to? Halloween


30.  What is your favorite pastime? reading, taking pictures, eating


31.  What are you doing right now? eating lunch
 
32.  What was the last thing you ate?  ham sandwich and greek salad.

33.  Do you wish on stars?  No

34.  If you were a crayon, what color would you be? blue or green


35.  How is the weather right now? very sunny but very fooling because it is so stinking  cold and windy


36.  The first person you spoke to on the phone today? jim

37.  Favorite soft drink?  iced tea

38.  Favorite restaurant?  sushi places and mexican food


39.  Natural hair color? brown


40.  What was your favorite toy as a child? my bike


41. Summer or winter?  definetly summer

42.  Hugs or kisses?  Hugs

43.  Chocolate or Vanilla?  vanilla

44.  Coffee or tea? neither - both


45. Do you want your friends to email you back?  if they want, there are many of these
      out there


46.  When was the last time you cried?  Listening to the "angel cowboy" Youtube (ME TOO! This morning) and, watching the Jennifer Hudson family tradgidy unfold. How awful :0(


47.  What is under your bed? kids clothes that will one day be made into a memory quilt... when I have time! LOL!

48.  What did you do last night? watched office space and helped the kids do homework


49.  What are you afraid of?  spiders

50.  Salty or sweet?  both

51.  How many keys on your key ring? 2

52.  Favorite day of the week? Saturday


53..  How many towns have you lived in?  1

54.  Do you make friends easily?  yes


55.  How many people will you send this to? a few

56.  How many will respond? not so many




Monday, October 27, 2008

Jimmy's Hand

 

all's well that ends well

WHEW! that's the word I would use to describe this weekend.
as fast as the wind was blowing on sunday is as fast as this weekend went for me!
friday j had his mom watch the kids so he could play in a tournament in in. so when i got home from work , i had to got out to her house and pick them us. we ended up meeting at the mall and we went to dinner (which was nice, we tried a new sushi place at woodfield) and i ended up buying the kids new shoes.
sat. i went for my blood test to find out what foods i might be allergic or intolerant to, then we took cali to the dog beach. WOW! what fun! I cannot wait to go back. she did so good with the other dogs. a few times she seemed a bit aprehensive, and when more than 3 or 4 dogs would run and sniff at her, she looked a bit skittish, but she shook it off and really enjoyed running from one end of the beach to the other.
so the dog beach is really where all the fun began.
we were about ready to leave (of course, it's always when your leaving) when r screams, "Mom! J is bleeding! Come quick" so i run over and see his hand just dripping blood. turns out, p found a piece of glass and picked it up to throw it away. when j saw him with the glass, he tried to grab it from him thinking he shouldn't have it, and p pulled it away. so wham, bam, slice, and j has a nice sized cut on his finger. perfect.
well, lucky for us, there was a paramedic parked at the beach and we knocked on his window. he gave us gauze and cleaned it out and said, "yep, looks like he'll need a few stitches."
we at that moment, notice cali near the water and (this is again, an "of course" moment) watch as she jumps into the water after being afraid of it the whole time we were there! haha! so much for getting out of there quick. so we get the wet and sandy family piled into the van and head home.
after a fun and exciting trip to the doctor, after x-rays and singing on the hospital bed and taking a ton of pictures of the wound, j ended up with 6 stitches and i big smile to prove he was such a trooper!
so, not to be out done by a busy morning, on to a birthday party we go. there was an animal show there and p got to hold a hissing cockaroach and j got a tarantula placed on his head and a big python around his neck. r was just perfectly happy petting the fox and chinchilla that came by. my favorite was the capuchin monkey that had a crush on me. he kept jumping on me and hugging my head, but i think he was trying to get to the table with the bead and the wine!
sunday was nice, but busy again. after church and explaining the story of the stitches a few hundred times, we grocery shopped and went to grandma j's with cali. it was nice to spend time with her this weekend.
wow, so as fast as the weather changed from sun, to hail to rain to wind yesterday, was as fast as the weekend went. bye bye. and hello week!

Friday, October 24, 2008

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wedding photos

My friend A got married this weekend. she moved to FL almost 10 years ago and met a really great guy.
The wedding was the weekend of the marathin so I was not able to go, but here are a few pics.
Isn't she pretty?
Her daughter L is J's age and she is just the cutest thing.
I am hoping they make it back to Chicago during snow season so the kids can play. L can't remember what snow looks like.
I wish them a happy and blessed life with each other. Congratulations A!








chuck the bat

who knew Payton was such a great artist?
I have been so impressed with the drawings he has been bringing home from school this year. This bat, Chuck, kind of looks like he could be Larry Boy's cousin. Payton said he sleeps upside down and he likes to play ball.

He is also friends with and owl named Nalun.

Thursday, October 23, 2008

26.2 completed


I ran the Chicago Marathon (26.2 miles) on October 12, 2008.

Thanks for supporting my run. You are a part of bringing clean water to

Zambia, Africa through Team World Vision.

Thanks again and God Bless!


early in the morning, aka, the crack of dawn.


having fun. all smiles before 5 miles!


getting tackled by jimmy. go mom!


(now he has already asked this question 4 other times)
"Dad, when are we going to see mom again?"


here I am. 11.5 miles and still smiling. today is a good day!

oh to be small and tired.

ok, now this is really tired. the kid is sleeping on a water bottle!

where's Payton? Mile 21 and I didn't see my boy.

this is my favorite picture of the whole day. I love it!

What dedication on my family's part to stick it out for me and the kids we are helping in Africa. Blessings come in all shapes and sizes. And in all forms.

wow! I did it! My first marathon. whoo hoo!

yes. there was pain afterwards.

I couldn't wait to eat!

capture a monster

I found this cute scrapbook idea on the Creative Home Atrs website. Now if I could only find the time to get it done!
 
Capture A Monster—on a Scrapbook Page!
A child is rarely cuter than at Halloween, so why not make a tradition of recording the fun, as well as that great costume you probably made!

The first thing is to get the right photos. Take several pictures, with different views and expressions. Kids get right into character when they put on their costume so, depending on the outfit, ask them to roar, dance, fly, or whatever. Capture their personalities.

Then include a few words or, even better, a quote. (As we all know, kids say the darnedest things, right?) If you want, you can even add sound to your page so you can play back that oh-so-terrifying growl.

Finally, add a pocket or envelope for journaling. It can be as simple as a photo or square of paper glued down on three sides. You can even turn the whole page into a pocket by cutting 1/4" off the top edge of the page and gluing the sides and bottom to another sheet of the same size paper. Glue a tab to the top edge of your journaling page so it's easy to pull out.

Be sure you and your little monster remember this "let's pretend" holiday forever—and pass on the page idea to other monster lovers!


Fire Chief

Meet the new fire chief in town, Sgt. Caligator Calison Dalessandro. I'll have to do a bit of back tracking, but Cali is about to be an official member in the Dalessandro family. She has been with us since September 22nd, and this weekend I filled out the paperwork to complete the adoption. Cali was the dog of a soldier who was deployed to Iraq. I pray he will be able to stay stong and defend our country with pride. I wish I could let him know that the dog he had to leave behind has found a home where she is loved and cared for. I hope he knows that we are not only appreciative of his gift of a dog, but his gift of defending this great nation. Thank you soldier.
So, Cali is showing her gratitude to service by being a fire cheif this Halloween.
(side note: WHOO HOOO!!!! I FINALLY have a dog I can dress up!)
Cali is 9 mo old now and is begining to get settled into our house. We still have a long way to go in puppy training, but she is definately a smart dog and I hope will prove to become a wonderful and much needed addition to our family.
 

TGIT


Thursday couldn't come quick enough, I'm so happy because tomorrow is Friday. I think I have post marathon downers. I've run a few times but everything is an effort. I received a comp 1/2 hr massage from my friendly chiro Dr. Darren today. That was a great pick me up. But I put it down on the black hole of papers that live on my table and now I will have to fight off the wild ravaging pack of papyrus before I can use it. Ah, life. Always a struggle but never dull.



Thursday, September 4, 2008

Kdg Orientation and the 1st day of school

Paton went to his kindergarten orientation on Thursday. It was a great was to get introduced to the school , teachers and kids. He brought all of his supplies and got to sit at his new desk. He seemed happy, but he usually isn't overly emotional, so I couldn't really tell. In this first picture, he looks a bit nervous.





Here are the 3 musketeers on the first day, Tuesday, September 2nd. It was a big day for everyone and we were all up early and excited. For Jimmy it was his first day at the new Edison and his first day taking a bus to school.
For Payton, it was his first day of kindergarten, enough said.
And for Rea, it was her first day with out her boys after a whole summer with them, and her first day without Payton, after a 3 yer lifespan. I think she cried harder than all of them when it was time to go :0(



Payton's day went well, again, not overly excited, but he enjoyed his day and was happy to show us his homework and tell us about a few things they did. Here is a picture of Jim getting Payton from "the box" on the first day.

Now poor Jimmy, this was probably one of the most messed up days the poor kid has experienced! The "fun" (said in a VERY sarcastic tone) began at 6:50 am when he got to the bus stop. This is where he (we) waited, and waited and waited and waited, for a bus that NEVER showed up!!!

Jimmy ended up spending the first day of 5th grade with tthe 5th graders at Thorp. He was so calm and good natured about it, but I knew where he would have rather been.

It was a good learning experience for him though, and he made new friends that might live in our neighborhood.

So the 2nd day rolls around and the bus fails to show for day 2. Today we decide that Jim will drive him to school and so Jimmy gets to class in the middle of 1st period. At least he made it! Jim picked him up on Wednesday since the bus didn't show at the school for over an hour.

By this morning, not being hopeful the bus was coming, it was a pleasent surprise to hear it picked Jimmy up and even better to hear that it was a new company and they were driving the route with an Edison parent and plan to make this work.

So after a few frustrating days, it looks like there is a little light at the end of the tunnel and we are going to continue to chug along.

a Bandit in our lives

it's been over a week now and Bandit Buttersworth Dalessandro is officially part of our family. Or should I say pack, since we are now an official pack since there is a dog involved :0)
Last Tuesday, it was my first day back to work after our trip to Michigan and I was having a little case of vacation longing. I wasn't to thrilled about getting back to the office, but I knew the day would go by fast since I would be playing 3 days of catch up.

So as I am working away, about to get up for lunch, I receive a call from Jim. He says, "So I was telling the kids how they will never be able to get a dog if they don't keep their toys put away and that the dog would eat them so they have to get better at cleaning up. So we cleaned up the house and were about to walk over to Jewel for a few things." (Remember, we were on vacation for 5 days) "So we walk outside and get about 3 houses down and there is this dog sniffing around Jim (Shiloh's dad's) house. He has no leash, no tags and there are no people around. We knocked on every door and no one knows who he is. But he is a good looking dog. Clean, puppy like. Very friendly. Jim gave us a leash, so I guess we are not going to Jewel right now."

I can tell you when I heard that from Jim, I was so excited. How wonderful that Jim is concerned about this dog and he wants to find his home! I would appreciate that so much if someone took my dog under it's wing and made sure he got home. At the time, I was in no way thinking that this dog was homeless and it could even be my dog. We were only "talking" about getting a dog... no decisions had been made. Only lofty discussions about what if and when and maybe we could...

As the day went on, it became more evident to me that is dog didn't have a home, but I knew once I got home we would bring him to the vet to see if he was chipped. Lo and behold he wasn't and the cute little guy just seemed to weave himselve into our lives. He was good inside the house, appeared to be house broken and had such a calm demeanor. He ended up spending the first night in the house. He slept in the front room the whole night and hasn't left since.

I tthink this was a little divine intervention and a pleasent gift from God. It shows me that He always knows what we need and will provide for us no matter what.

This dog found us and I am so pleased to be called his owner.

Bandit has proven that he needs training, but he is a calm presence that has brought more love, laughter and joy to our lives and is teaching our family to become a bit more laid back and have more fun with each other.

Thank you for this gift.

Monday, August 25, 2008

soaring eagle

can i even say how much i love these kids? they are so precious and wonderful.
we went away this weekend and i got 5 full days pure joy and pleasure.










Saturday, August 9, 2008

pre race night

i guess you can call me the snapping turtle of the family for the past few days. i can't explain it and i can't wait to shake it, but i have been on a high irritation level all week. i feel so guilty looking back over the past week and thinking about how I have treated the kids and even jim at times. i have been impatient and quite self centered. i wish i could say it's because of the race tomorrow or because of work, but it's not enough of any of those things to make me blame it. i know the hormone tide is in, so maybe it has something to do with that, but it still doesn't excuse me for my mouth. i have been so short tempered mostly with the kids and they don't deserve that.
i read earlier that there are no headphones allowed on the course tomorrow and at first i went into a mini panic... oh no! what am i going to do if i can't drown out my own thoughts for 2 hours? Then after the initial shock wore off (ok, so it was a day) i have decided (and praying about it has helped) (kind of like God saying ok nik, now really, tell me again why this is such a bad thing? have you really been spending any quality time with me lately?) that the run with out the headphones is perfect. it is the best time for me to spend alone with the lord and reflect on the week i have had and give it all to him. again, even when i don't want to follow and i am stubborn and stray, God's perfect will is right there to gently lead me and correct me in the right direction.

Bah, bah, bah. (like a sheep... gone astray...)

now it's off to bed to sleep for a few hours before it's game time! update to come on the race experience.

Thursday, August 7, 2008

Thoughtful Thursdays

So since I don't regularly post and I am oh so trying to get better at it, i thought if i made a theme to at least one or two of the days during the week it would encourage me to post more often. I think I will start with... Thoughtful Thursdays. This is actually perfect since my hubby is out on Thursdays and after the kids are in bed, I have a chance to siit down and be quiet within my own thoughts. Plus, unless I am SUPER tired from getting up at 5:30 to run, I can stay up late b/c i don't have to run in the morning. (whoo hoo... shhh)

So thoughts... to start, I read this e-mail from my mom today and it was really thought provoking. I wanted to sit at the computer and think about it for a while, but I needed to get back to work.
Maybe it's a little long, and maybe it's one of those cheezy e-mails people forward around, but maybe, it will make us pause for a moment and think, maybe...

Maybe ... we were supposed to meet the wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.
Maybe ... When the door of happiness closes, another opens; but, often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't even see the new one which has been opened for us;
maybe ... it is true that we don't know what we have until we lose it, but it is also true that we don't know what we have been missing until it arrives.
Maybe .. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
Maybe ... the brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; after all, you can't go on successfully in life until you let go of your past mistakes, failures, and heartaches.
Maybe ...You should dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go, be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you dream of, and want to do.
Maybe ... There are moments in life when you miss someone -- a parent, a spouse, a friend, a child, your girlfriend/boyfriend -- so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real, so that once they are around you appreciate them more.
Maybe ...The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.
Maybe .. You should always try to put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that something could hurt you, it probably will hurt the other person too.
Maybe ..You should do something nice for someone every single day, even if it is simply to leave them alone.
Maybe ... Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back. Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart; but if it doesn't, be content that it grew in yours.
Maybe ... Happiness waits for all those who cry, all those who hurt, all those who have searched, and all those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of all the people who have touched their lives.
Maybe ... You shouldn't go for looks; they can deceive; don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one who makes your heart smile.
Maybe ... You should hope for enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, and enough hope to make you happy.
Maybe ... You should try to live your life to the fullest because when you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling, but when you die, you can be the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.
Maybe ... you could send this message to those people who mean something to you, to those who have touched your life, to those who can and do make you smile when you really need it, to those who make you see the brighter side of things when you are really down, and to all those whom you want to know that you appreciate them and their friendship.


OK, so, like I said... maybe, it's a little cheezy, and I totally don't agree with some of the things said, but I do agree with the concept, of maybe, we could take the time to care about people, to share the love of God and to give out the hope that we have been blessed with.