Saturday, March 28, 2009

The Devil & The Duck

My friend sent me this e-mail today and it is so simple yet so profound. To think that the devil made me a slave to my sin! But to know that I am forgiven and no longer have to submit to his demands and bargains is awesome.

Are you forgiven or still a slave to sin?




The Devil & the Duck

There was a little boy visiting his grandparents on their farm.


He was given a slingshot to play with out in the woods.

He practiced in the woods; but he could never hit the target.

Getting a little discouraged, he headed back for dinner.

As he was walking back he saw Grandma's pet duck.



Just out of impulse, he let the slingshot fly, hit the duck square in the head and killed it. He was shocked and grieved!

In a panic, he hid the dead duck in the wood pile; only to see his Sister watching! Sally had seen it all, but she said nothing.




After lunch the next day Grandma said, 'Sally, let's wash the dishes'

But Sally said, 'Grandma, Johnny told me he wanted to help in the kitchen.'

Then she whispered to him, "Remember the duck?'

So Johnny did the dishes.

Later that day, Grandpa asked if the children wanted to go fishing and Grandma said, 'I'm sorry but I need Sally to help make supper.'

Sally just smiled and said, 'well that's all right because Johnny told me he wanted to help?

She whispered again, 'Remember the duck?' So Sally went fishing and Johnny stayed to help.

After several days of Johnny doing both his chores and Sally's; he finally couldn't stand it any longer.

He came to Grandma and confessed that he had killed the duck.

Grandma knelt down, gave him a hug and said, 'Sweetheart, I know. You see, I was standing at the window and I saw the whole thing, but because I love you, I forgave you. I was just wondering how long you would let Sally make a slave of you.'



Thought for the day and every day thereafter:


Whatever is in your past, whatever you have done... And the devil keeps throwing it up in your face (lying, cheating, debt, fear, bad habits, hatred, anger, bitterness, etc.)...whatever it is...You need to know that:
God was standing at the window and He saw the whole thing.



He has seen your whole life... He wants you to know that He loves you and that you are forgiven. He's just wondering how long you will let the devil make a slave of you.

The great thing about God is that when you ask for forgiveness; He not only forgives you, but He forgets.



It is by God's grace and mercy that we are saved.

Friday, March 27, 2009

meet Heartsy. the ballerina lamb.

Grandma let Rea make a build-a-bear (lamb) today for Easter.

GRANDMA'S ROCK!

busy body bitty. out cold catching flies!

My favorite pizza pineapple/canadian bacon GOING!

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Tuesday, March 24, 2009

stir fry meal; sucessful

this is my dinner. HOT! SPICY! wow! i used a few spoonfuls of the hot chilies my abuelita made and its an aweson stir fry. i cut up a red, green and yellow pepper, a zuchinni, bok choy and bean sprouts for the veggies. i marinated flank steak in beef broth, soy sauce, rice wine vinegar, fresh garlic, cilantro, oregano, salt, pepper and chili powder for about 40 min. i also marinated chicken in paul newman lime vinegarette salad dressing. i cooked the meat for a few min, took it out of the pan and ccokked the veggies til tender and added the meat back into the pan. the mixture was just right and everyone ate the food. That usually means its a "make again" meal! = added the hot sauce ate the end of cooking after the kids ate their fill. So the pic might not look like much but it was a kick butt meal.

Monday, March 23, 2009

Lessons in Life


1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don't have to win every argument.
Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone.
It's more healing than crying alone.

8. It's OK to get angry with God.
He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.

12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others'.
You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.

16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.

17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today.

18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.

19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood.
But the second one is up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie.Don't save it for a special occasion.
Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words:
"In five years, will this matter?"

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone, everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time, time.

31.. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick.
Your friends will. Stay in touch.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

35. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

36 Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.

38. Read the Psalms. They cover every human emotion.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.

41. Don't audit life.
Show up and make the most of it now.

42. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

44. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

45. The best is yet to come.

46. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

47. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

48. If you don't ask, you don't get.

49. Yield..

50. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.

"May the Lord's face radiate with joy because of you"

How many cares one loses

How many cares one loses when one decides not to be something but to be someone. - Coco Chanel

Saturday, March 21, 2009

mascot magnet

here is the mascot. leave it to jimmy to attract the mascot for a team. i'll have to find out from the other parents how big of a goof ball my baby really was. i wonder if he was flirting with the girls tonight... he doesn't tell me much so I have to go unddercover for the info.

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wolves game

jiimy went to the wolves game tonight with his friends from school. looks like they had pretty good seats.

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Friday, March 20, 2009

1 reagan and one momma

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Thursday, March 19, 2009

pain is not optional, growth is good

what is it that makes a parent's worst fears for their child kick into major overdrive at the slightest indication of a problem?
why is it that the momma bear comes out and wants to protect and shelter her cub? I think it's a total  natural reaction to proctect and hide your offspring from danger, pain and hurt. Just as we pull our hands away from the heat of the stove or fire or we shelter our eyes from the sun, pain never feels good but there is so much to learn from the experience of it.
i can only imagine that God didn't want to give up Jesus at the cross. he must have agonized over the ability he had to let go of his only son and look away, even though he knew the outcome. even though he knew it was for the better or the protection of so many more, i can't believe it pained him any less to go through that experience.
knowing this and really internalizing it on my small scale today, i can actually see how pain is such a huge step of growth and how it can be a source of comfort for us as children of God.
just as God was pained when he watched Jesus suffer, we are his children and he is pained when we suffer. Regardless of our pain being emotional, physical, self induced or external, our father is pained and wants to shield us from it but knows he cannot for our own good.
in the same manner, we have to let out children experience pain. all kinds, in order for them to learn and grow (hopefully closer to the Lord) through their experiences.
today i read a great post on the blog below about pain and loss.
 
so the next time i want to jump in the middle of my children's pain, i need to hold back and pray for the strength to let them have experiences without my interferance and trust they will emerge stronger and closer to their Lord because of it.

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Fw: top o' the mornin' to ya

  
 HAPPY ST. PATRICK'S DAY!!!
Here is the "green" breakfast the kids ate this morning.
We also let Jimmy (and yes, I did it too) dye his hair green for St. Paddy's day. He was so happy.
Payton didn't want to do it b/c he didn't ask his teach. How sweet!

St. Patrick's Day: Facts and Legends
To mark St Patrick's Day, Faith Central has compiled 10 celebratory tidbits, some myth, some fact, on the Patron Saint of the Irish.

1. The potato crop was traditionally planted in Ireland after March 17
2. Blue not green is the color originally associated with St Patrick. "St Patrick's Blue" is used on Ireland's Presidential Standard or flag, while the Irish Guards sport a plume of St Patrick's blue in their bearskins. The emphasis on green is thought to be linked to "wearing the Green", a symbol from the 18th century on, of sympathy with Irish independence.

3. St Patrick is patron of fishermen in the Loire, where a legend associates him with a blackthorn bush. The saint is said to have slept beneath it, and when he awoke the next day, Christmas, the bush flowered, and was said to have continued to do so every Christmas until its destruction during the First World War.

4. A regiment of the Mexican army in the 1846 -8 War between Mexico and America was named after St Patrick. Members of the Batellón de San Patricio included Afro-Americans freshly liberated from the slave plantations of the South, and the soldiers were granted Mexican citizenship afterwards.

5. The first St Patrick's Day parade took place in 1737 in Boston, followed in 1762 by New York. George Washington allowed his soldiers a holiday on March 17, 1780 as "an act of solidarity with the Irish in their fight for independence."

6. Until the 1970's, all pubs were shut in Ireland on St Patrick's Day, and the sole venue selling drink the annual dog show. Lenten fasting - and the obligation to abstain from meat - were lifted on the day, which most families would begin with Mass.

7. St Patrick's Day is a public holiday in Ireland and also in Monserrat "the Emerald Isle of the Carribean," so called because it was settled in 1633 by Irish migrants from St Kitts.

8. According to legend, on the day of Judgement, while Christ judges all other nations, St Patrick will be the judge of the Irish.

9. Since 1962, tons of green dye are tipped on St Patrick's Day into the Chicago river, although the quantity has reduced, for environmental reasons, from 100 to 40.

10. Should you wish to carry on celebrating St Patrick after March 17, in the United States, you might visit the four Shamrocks in the USA including Mount Gay-Shamrock, W.Va or the nine cities named Dublin, including Dublin, Ohio (the largest Dublin in the U.S.) and Dublin, Georgia.



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Monday, March 16, 2009

picnic time



i and r had a pb&j pinnic yesterday. they invited a pony and a panda bear. p played bakugan and cali was happy chewing sticks. it was almost 60 degrees yesterday! spring is almost here!



we also had the Celebration of Life baby shower for 3 ladies at church. they are all cousins and had their babies (2 girls and a boy) with -in a few months of each other.




we made diaper cakes and the pacifier favors.






we played bingo and the candy bar diaper game.






one of the ladies that has 8 children gave a devotional and we ate soup and sandwiches until we were stuffed.






it was a fun day!

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

an apple a day

 

Who knew? Today, March 11th, is Johnny Appleseed day :0)

Tonight I would love to find a way to incorporate this into a small lession about the fruits of the spirit with the kids. I know I have a really cute apple stamp, and a few apples laying around the house. I think as I am making dinner, I will have the kids sit down and make apple cards for their teachers and talk to them about the seed that is planted in our hearts and we all bear fruit and the fruit we bear is a testement to our faith in Jesus.

Yum! Then apples for dessert and a quick line about Johnny Appleseed, who treked across the nation to plant apple trees.

thanks Johnny!


Tuesday, March 10, 2009

just a scare

on sunday we had a bit of a scare. I guess it started on saturday when larry a came in to town and helped jimmy all day cut pyramids for his history project. all the work left his back hurting and very tired. so on sunday, i guess he was very sore and took a pain pill to get moving and get to church, which left him with no appitite and no desire to eat breakfast.


so during the service toward the end of pastors message, larry was not feeling well and stood up to leave the sanctuary, but instead of standing up and walking out, he stood up and fell! he actually blacked out and hit his head on the pew! ouch. praise the Lord for all the loving and supportive people in our church. Immediaetly pastor called everyone to pray for larry and people began gathering in groups and praying for the Lords guidence and will to be done.


a few of the decons helped larry into the washroom and others called 911. within minutes they arrived and larry ended up going to the hospital.


it turns out he had his medicine changed a few days before and his bp usually runs low. that, combined without eating food caused him to black out. after hours of tests at the hospital, he is ok, he was stable and kept for observation overnight. so thank the Lord that larry is ok. he and mom took off today for AZ. hopefully it will be an 'uneventful' trip.




here is a pic of the pyramids: don't they look great?



















Friday, March 6, 2009

baby shower pacifier

last night lydia cam over and we worked on the baby shower favors. they turned out so cute! I love how the icing hardened like glue so they don't fall apart. At first I wasn't sh sure if it would stay together but it did. coolio.
I didn't tie the ribbons on all like in the (very poor quality) picture, so that will be a project for this weekend, but they turned out so cute anyway and the whole house smelled like mint! YUM!

I said no bite!

Thursday, March 5, 2009

caligator's morning shot


 
i love this goofy pic of cali. she looks so disheveled and silly.
 


Wednesday, March 4, 2009

i miss you gram

today i miss my grandma. she is gone now but the memories, thoughts, feeling and smells, yes, smells are still as vivid as ever. today it has been 4 years since she passed away. she was born in 1915, but in August, so she was 89 years old. didn't quite make it to 90. she did, however, make it to reagan. she held on and waited to see that baby like she said she would. every once in a while i get really sentimental and start missing her real bad. now i know i am past the greiving process and i can healthly miss her now, but sometimes there will be something i see, smell or hear and i get overwhelmed with emotion on the fact that she is no longer her.
i will always remember the night she died, when payton woke up at 2am crying out from a dead sleep for his grandma, and the call the next morning, early, from mom, confirming what i already knew. these pictures were taken in 2007, at the lincoln park conservatory, where she loved going several times a year. this is probably the place that i can remember her most enjoying. and of course, russell's, both of which are still the same as they were.
thanks grandma, for the love, the guidance, the memories and the food. we wouldn't be the same without you!

Monday, March 2, 2009

Weekend recap

what a great weekend it was! we had the rock star dance on friday night and rea's dance class was cancelled on saturday so we (I) actually got to sleep in. ok, granted, it was only until 7:15 am, but I'll take it. it's not 5:30 or 6 am! The kids got to spend time at grandma pats house and i got to scrapbook for a few hours with friends.
i feel good that i got the month of jan. 2009 completed. my hope for this year is to stay current and really focus on getting the highlights of a month done after the close of the next. now i am ready to get working on february. i also worked on reagan's book. i only completed 1 page, and i need to get a few finishing touches done, but it's one step closer.
small goals added up = big results in the end.
sunday we went to church and jimmy had a pizza party with our pastor. they just compleated an 8 week study on the church. how exciting! jimmy really enjoyed learning about our faith in a much more in depth way and there definately was no better teach for this class. our pastor is such a blessing to us and really cares about the lives and souls of each one of us.
we did our grocery shopping at dominicks and used the coupons. i spent $85 for a week's worth of food and saved about $75. I think it was worth it, but only b/c of the coupons.
last night we made dinner for grandma and enjoyed a nice night of watching some tv.
now, here we are, back to monday and the beginning of another week!