Wednesday, December 31, 2008
this is a big one... deep into the depths of my soul
2. What do you want less of in your life?
3. What are three things you are doing regularly that don't serve or support you?
4. What do you really, really want?
5. What's one change you could make to your lifestyle that would give you more peace? letting go of clutter
6. In your current situation, what are you grateful for?
7. What is the value of your current attitude?
8. What's one way you could have more fun in your life?
9. What is your life really about? What is your purpose?
10. What would you like most to be acknowledged for so far in your life?
raising my children to be followers of Christ. Each one of them has asked Jesus to be their Lord and Savior. If NOTHING else, I can stand on this accomplishment.
Bonus Question
Who is responsible for your happiness? Ultimately, it is I. But I rely on the strength I need to create my own happiness form God.
If these questions intrigue you...
If you are going into or are in the midst of a transition... only my own... to be a better me. More follow though, less mess
If you want to get stress and expectations under control... i have to do it and stop talking about it.
Saturday, December 27, 2008
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
what? what? say what?
i thought this child just turned 4, not 14! how does this happen? somebody please explain!
let sleeping dogs lie
this is cala being dog-gone good and tired. this is how i feel today!
Cali's Holiday Greeting
Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays from Cali and the Dalessandro Family.
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Tuesday, December 9, 2008
Christmas Quiz
1. The innkeeper in Bethlehem told Mary and Joseph, "There's no room for you in the inn."
2. Jesus was born inside a barn/stable.
3. Xmas is a disrespectful abbreviation for Christmas – taking Christ – so to speak out of Christmas.
4. Jesus wasn't really born on December 25.
5. "The little Lord Jesus, no crying he makes…" (from Away in a Manger).
6. The "wise men" followed the star in the sky to the manger where Jesus was.
7. The "wise men" who found Jesus were not kings.
8. A 'manger' is a stable for domestic animals.
9. The first candy cane was made to be a visible reminder of who Jesus is and what He has done for us.
10. The Bible says that three "wise-men" visited Jesus.
11. Our nation's earliest colonies insisted on making Christmas a holiday.
12. Jesus' birthday was not celebrated by His earliest followers.
answers will be posted tomorrow...
simple truths
Just because two people argue,
Doesn't mean they don't love each other.
And just because they don't argue,
Doesn't mean they do love each other.
We don't have to change friends if
We understand friends change.
No matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt
You every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
True friendship continues to grow, even over
The longest distance. Same goes for true love.
You can do something in an instant
That will give you heartache for life.
it's taking me a long time To become the person I want to be.
You should always leave loved ones with
Loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
You can keep going long after you think you can't.
We are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
Either you control your attitude or it controls you.
Heroes are the people who do what has to be done
When it needs to be done, regardless of consequences.
Money is a lousy way of keeping score.
My best friend and I can do anything or nothing, And have the best time.
Sometimes the people you expect to kick you
When you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.
Sometimes when I'm angry, I have the right to be angry,
But that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
Maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had
And what you've e learned from them, and less to do
With how many birthdays you've celebrated.
It isn't always enough to be forgiven by others;
Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself..
No matter how bad your heart is broken, The world doesn't stop for your grief.
Our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are,
But we are responsible for who we become.
You shouldn't be so eager to find
Out a secret. It could change your life forever.
Two people can look at the exact same
Thing and see something totally different..
Your life can be changed in a matter of
Hours by people who don't even know you.
Even when you think you have no more to give, when
A friend cries out to you - you will find the strength to help.
Credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
The people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.
'The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything;
They just make the most of anything.
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it's beginning to look a lot like Christmas
1. Egg Nog or Hot Chocolate? Hot Chocolate
2.Does Santa wrap presents or just sit them under the tree? Wrap
3. Colored lights on house/tree or white? white, but the kids wanted colored this year.
4. Do you hang mistletoe? yes
5.When do you put your decorations up? the day after Thanksgiving before reagan was born. now we celebrate her that weekend and decorate the following week. one thing a night goes up for about a week.
6. What is your favorite holiday dish (excluding dessert)? Excluding dessert?! Who came up with these questions?! Um...sheesh, I don't know, I love it all!
7. Favorite holiday memory as a child? italian seafood christmas eve and playing with my cousins for 2 whole days!
8.When and how did you learn the truth about Santa? i was about 8 or 9 and an older cousin mentioned it. it made sense so i looked it up and it was true! no santa, but when i confronted my parents i was told that if i didn't believe in santa, he wouldn't bring me gifts, so it was our little joke and my oldest and I have it going now.
9. Do you open a gift on Christmas Eve? yes
10. How do you decorate your Christmas tree? With ornaments, ribbon and white lights. and this year color too to apease the children.
11. Snow. Love it or dread it? Love to look at it, hate to deal with it.
12. Can you ice skate? oh yeah
13. Do you remember your favorite gift? ever? No, but i do remember the year I got a pink super mario brothers watch and little foot stuffed animal from the land before time. it was very cool.
14. What is the most important thing about the holidays to you? Spending time with family - I love family!
15. What is your favorite holiday dessert? Cookies - any and all!
16. What is your favorite holiday tradition? Waking up at our house on Christmas morning and the opening of the advent calendar each day.
17. What tops your Christmas tree? an angel.
18. Which do you prefer giving or receiving? i love giving and knowing the receiver liked the gift. but i do have my list made although i would prefer to buy it myself and have them wrap it and give it back to me so i know it's what i want. (yeah, i know i'm picky.)
19. What is your favorite Christmas song? mary did you know and o holy night
20. Candy Canes. Yum or Yuck? Yum
21. What do you want for Christmas? a new camera
22. Do you attend an annual Christmas party? Yes, several
23. Do you dress up for Christmas Eve or wear PJ's? We dress up for the family party, but then get comfy cozy in our PJ's.
24. Do you own a Santa hat? yes. one for each of us.
25. Who do you normally spend Christmas with? my family in the morning, them we usually host or go to my husbands side.
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
reagan's snowman
5th grade science fair
Sunday, November 30, 2008
Thursday, November 27, 2008
i'm soooo keeping it!
Saturday, November 15, 2008
just breath
sata arrives the mall (on a Harley, his sleigh broke down!)
Thursday, November 13, 2008
So You Want To Have Children?
So You Want To Have Children?
Preparation
Women:
- Put on a dressing gown and stick a beanbag down the front.
- Leave it there.
- Every week, add another beanbag.
- After 9 months, remove 2 beanbags.
Men:
- Go to your pharmacy.
- Empty your wallet on the counter.
- Tell the pharmacist to help himself
- Go to the supermarket.
- Arrange to have your salary paid directly to their front office.
- Go home.
- Read the newspaper… for the last time.
Knowledge
- Find a couple with children.
- Berate them about their lack of discipline, lack of patience, low tolerance, and how their children run wild.
- Suggest how they can improve their child's sleeping habits, toilet training, table manners and general behavior.
- Enjoy it while it lasts. It's the last time you'll have all the answers.
Nights
- Turn the radio on to some loud screaming station.
- Walk around the room from 5 to 10 PM carrying a 10 pound bag of wet goo while the station screams.
- At 10 PM, put the bag down, set the alarm for midnight and go to sleep.
- Get up at 11 and walk the bag around until 1 AM.
- Set the alarm for 3. Since you can't get to sleep, get up at 2 and make tea.
- Go to bed at 2:30.
- Get up at 3 AM when the alarm goes off.
- Sing songs in the dark until 4.
- Set the alarm for 5. Get up when it goes off.
- Make breakfast.
- Repeat for four years. Look cheerful!
Dressing Small Children
- Buy a live octopus and a string bag.
- Attempt to put the octopus into the string bag so that no arms hang out.
- Time allowed: 5 minutes.
Cars
- Sell the BMW.
- Buy a 5-door wagon.
- Put a large chocolate ice cream cone in the glove compartment. Leave it there.
- Put a peanut butter sandwich in the CD player.
- Mash a box of chocolate cookies into the back seat.
- Run a garden rake along both sides of the car.
Going For a Walk
- Wait.
- Go out the front door.
- Go back inside.
- Go outside.
- Come back in.
- Go outside.
- Walk down the front sidewalk.
- Walk back up it.
- Walk down it again.
- Walk very slowly along the street for 5 minutes.
- Stop at every piece of used chewing gum, dirty tissue, and dead bug along the way. Inspect each minutely. Ask at least 6 questions about each.
- Retrace your steps.
- Scream that you have had as much as you can stand until the neighbors come out and stare at you.
- Give up and go back into the house.
- Repeat for 5 years.
Patience
- Repeat everything you say at least 5 times.
Grocery Shopping
- Go to the supermarket. Take along the nearest thing to a pre-school child: a fully grown goat. (If you plan to have more than one child, take more than one goat.)
- Buy your weekly groceries without letting the goat(s) get out of your sight.
- Pay for everything the goat eats or destroys.
Feeding a 1 year-old
- Prepare a bowl of cornflakes.
- Hollow out a melon through a small hole in one side.
- Suspend the melon from the ceiling.
- Swing it back and forth.
- Spoon the soggy cornflakes into the swaying melon while making airplane noises.
- When at least half of the cornflakes are gone, pour the rest on your clothes and the floor.
TV
- Learn the names of every character from every episode of the Wiggles, Barney, Teletubbies, and every Disney movie.
- Watch nothing else on television for at least 5 years.
Cleanliness
- Smear peanut butter on your sofa.
- Smear jam on your curtains.
- Hide a fish behind the stereo. Leave it there all summer.
- Stick your fingers in dirt. Rub them on your walls.
- Color your other walls with crayons.
Traveling
- Make a recording of someone shouting "Mommy!" over and over. (There may be no more than 4 seconds between each shout.)
- Include the occasional crescendo to the approximate decibel level of a fighter jet.
- Play this tape in your car continuously the 5 years.
Conversations
1. Start a conversation with another adult.
2. Have someone else continually tug on your pants and shirtsleeves while playing the tape prepared above.
Get Dressed
1. On a day when you have an important meeting, wear your nicest work attire.
3. Put 1 cup of lemon juice into a cup of cream. Stir.
5. Pour half of it on your shirt.
6. Saturate a towel with the other half.
7. Attempt to clean your shirt by rubbing it with the saturated towel.
8. Do not change clothes. You're late already!
9. Go directly to work.
You are now ready to have children.
Sunday, November 9, 2008
payton's first loose tooth
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
30 days of Thanks - thank God for silence
I am trying to follow this 30 Days of Thanks theme I received from a devotional e-mail I receive everyday and this is the theme from yesterday:
Day # 3, Monday, Nov. 3
Thank God for Silence
.Due to the fast pace of our lives these days,
most of us have forgotten the gifts of silence and reflection.
Take a few minutes sometime today,
find a quiet spot and think of things you are grateful for.
So I posed this question to the kids today when we were on our walk with Cali.
It was after we stopped to play with the neighbor's dogs and I was getting really frustrated that the kids wouldn't listen to me asking them to stay off the grass. One of the dogs' was pooping in a few spots and it was really testing my patience to see the kids run around after the dogs knowing that someone was going to step in the poop and the end result would be me cleaning it up. So after we said our goodbye's I gave them a what-for about listening to their mom and how disappointed I was in their behavior and how I just can't understand how they could be so disrespectful for not listening to me... blah, blah, blah. It's bad when you are sick of hearing yourself talk yet you can't shut up even though you KNOW the other parties are just begging you to stop or at the very least, have already completely tuned you out...
So , when I finally shut up, I remembered that the 30 days of Thanks theme I am trying to follow, so I apologized to the kids and asked them to forgive me for ranting and raving and to just be silent on the walk and think of something they are grateful for. Here is what they said:
Payton is thankful for his Jesus, Jimmy is thankful for his family and Reagan is thankful for her dog. Then I mentioned that I was thankful for my freedom, which initiated a lively discussion on America and all the blessings we have as a nation. I am so proud of my kids and for the wonderful things they are thankful for.
So after I thought of everything that transpired last night, I was really convicted about the way I acted towards them and I would like to change the thing I am thankful for.
I really think I am most thankful for Forgiveness. I am thankful I am forgiven and that I have the willingness and the ability to forgive. I would be nothing with out it, but because of it, I have everything.
Monday, November 3, 2008
as easy as taking candy from a baby
Day of the Dead
During the Day of the Dead, people visit cemeteries and build private altars containing the departed's favorite foods and beverages, as well as photos and memorabilia, to encourage visits by their loved ones' souls. Celebrations can also take a lighter tone as humorous events and anecdotes about the departed are remembered.
Ofrendas (offerings) are put in homes—usually with foods such as pan de muerto ("bread of the dead"), sugar skulls, and beverages such as atole—to welcome the deceased. Some people believe the spirits of the dead eat the "spiritual essence" of the ofrenda food, so even though the celebrants eat the food after the festivities, they believe it lacks nutritional value. (Finally—calories that really don't count!)
Friday, October 31, 2008
ouch, a blistered butt
It is their decision.
If they decide to turn their back
on the fire and burn their behinds,
then they will just have to sit on their blisters."
~Abraham Lincoln
Thursday, October 30, 2008
Tea Anyone?
Awana Costume Party
You Are God's Pumpkin
You Are God's Pumpkin
This devotional was written by Kelly McFadden
God has united you with Christ Jesus. For our benefit God made him to be wisdom itself. Christ made us right with God; he made us pure and holy, and he freed us from sin. Therefore, as the Scriptures say, "If you boast, boast only about the Lord."—1 Corinthians 1:30-31
For most of the country, the crisp cool air of autumn is upon us. A sure sign of autumn is that Christmas decorations are popping up everywhere in retail stores. Halloween costumes and disguises are sold out from shops as trick-or-treaters are ready to take over the streets. A popular symbol of both harvest time and Halloween is the pumpkin. I was thinking recently that being a Christian is a lot like being a pumpkin. Perhaps you are visualizing this orange, round vegetable and wondering how you could ever be compared to one of these squashes! Simply put, like a child chooses a pumpkin to carve and mold an image upon, so God carves and molds His own unique design in you.
The Scriptures tell us that the Lord chooses us. He lifts us up and washes the dirt from our skin. Then he opens us, connecting deep inside to scoop out all the slimy, yucky stuff, including seeds of doubt, spite, lies, fear, etc. Then He carves a new creation, and makes our faces shine by putting His light inside for all to see.
Sometimes I feel like I don't want my light to shine because I am ashamed of a thought or action or pattern in my life. I try to hide the light Christ has put in me, and blend in with the crowd. What I forget is that when God carved me, created me, and gave me His Son, I no longer had to count on my own strength. I can count on the Lord's. It is He who washes me clean; it is He who gives me a spirit of strength and perseverance; it is He who makes me pure; it is He who frees me from sin; and it is He who gives me hope. When I realize that my part of the equation is to rely on His strength and power, then I can do as Scriptures say, and shine His light through the power of the Holy Spirit.
What starts as an everyday squash turns into a lantern of light. What starts as an everyday person turns into a beacon of hope for all to see. At times, it is hard to imagine that we can be cleansed through Jesus. As the Scripture says, Christ has made us right with God. He has purified us and freed us from sin. Through our union with Christ, we are given the light and wisdom of the Holy Spirit who enters and dwells in our lives. It is He who picked you out and carved you just the way He wants you. So make sure you keep your lantern lit for all to see.
GOING DEEPER:
1. What sins are in your life that you need to release and allow the Lord to scoop out for you?
2. Each time you see a pumpkin this autumn, think through why it is so important for you to be a vessel of light representing our Lord.
FURTHER READING:
Psalm 19:7-10; Colossians 2:3; 1 Thessalonians 4:3-7
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
2008 Edition - About Me
2. Diamonds or pearls? diamonds first, then pearls
3. Last movie you saw at the cinema? Kung Fu Panda
4. What is your favorite TV show? Brothers & Sisters, Greys Anatomy, ER
5. What do you usually have for breakfast? Oatmeal & Yogurt
6. What is your middle name? Marie
7. What food do you dislike? Mushrooms
8. What is your favorite CD? i pod shuffle, there are too many to name.
9. What kind of car do you drive? Dodge Grand Caravan
10. Favorite sandwich? Turkey
11. What characteristic do you despise? hypocritical
12. Favorite item of clothing? sweatshirt, zip up with a hood
13. If you could go anywhere in the world on vacation, where would you go?
Alaska
14. Favorite brand of clothing? don't have one Gap
15. Where would you retire to? south western state. hot and dry.
16. Your most memorable birthday? last year. i turned 29, not 30!
17. Favorite sport to watch? Cubbies and Bears
18. Furthest place you are sending this? chi town
19. Person you expect to send it back first? ?
20. When is your birthday? January 30
21. Are you a morning glory or a night owl? night owl
22. What is your shoe size? 6
23. Pets? 1 puppy, 1 fish
24. Any new and exciting news you'd like to share with us? I just ran the Chicago Marathon
25. What did you want to be when you were little? veteranerian
26. How are you today? sore, working out hurts
27. What is your favorite candy? kit kat, heath bar
28. What is your favorite flower? peoney
29. What is a day on the calendar you are looking forward to? Halloween
30. What is your favorite pastime? reading, taking pictures, eating
31. What are you doing right now? eating lunch
32. What was the last thing you ate? ham sandwich and greek salad.
33. Do you wish on stars? No
34. If you were a crayon, what color would you be? blue or green
35. How is the weather right now? very sunny but very fooling because it is so stinking cold and windy
36. The first person you spoke to on the phone today? jim
37. Favorite soft drink? iced tea
38. Favorite restaurant? sushi places and mexican food
39. Natural hair color? brown
40. What was your favorite toy as a child? my bike
41. Summer or winter? definetly summer
42. Hugs or kisses? Hugs
43. Chocolate or Vanilla? vanilla
44. Coffee or tea? neither - both
45. Do you want your friends to email you back? if they want, there are many of these
out there
46. When was the last time you cried? Listening to the "angel cowboy" Youtube (ME TOO! This morning) and, watching the Jennifer Hudson family tradgidy unfold. How awful :0(
47. What is under your bed? kids clothes that will one day be made into a memory quilt... when I have time! LOL!
48. What did you do last night? watched office space and helped the kids do homework
49. What are you afraid of? spiders
50. Salty or sweet? both
51. How many keys on your key ring? 2
52. Favorite day of the week? Saturday
53.. How many towns have you lived in? 1
54. Do you make friends easily? yes
55. How many people will you send this to? a few
56. How many will respond? not so many
Monday, October 27, 2008
all's well that ends well
Friday, October 24, 2008
Free Tacos for America!
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wedding photos
chuck the bat
Thursday, October 23, 2008
26.2 completed
I ran the Chicago Marathon (26.2 miles) on October 12, 2008.
Thanks for supporting my run. You are a part of bringing clean water to
Zambia, Africa through Team World Vision.
Thanks again and God Bless!
early in the morning, aka, the crack of dawn.
ok, now this is really tired. the kid is sleeping on a water bottle!
where's Payton? Mile 21 and I didn't see my boy.
this is my favorite picture of the whole day. I love it!
What dedication on my family's part to stick it out for me and the kids we are helping in Africa. Blessings come in all shapes and sizes. And in all forms.
wow! I did it! My first marathon. whoo hoo!
yes. there was pain afterwards.
I couldn't wait to eat!
capture a monster
The first thing is to get the right photos. Take several pictures, with different views and expressions. Kids get right into character when they put on their costume so, depending on the outfit, ask them to roar, dance, fly, or whatever. Capture their personalities.
Then include a few words or, even better, a quote. (As we all know, kids say the darnedest things, right?) If you want, you can even add sound to your page so you can play back that oh-so-terrifying growl.
Finally, add a pocket or envelope for journaling. It can be as simple as a photo or square of paper glued down on three sides. You can even turn the whole page into a pocket by cutting 1/4" off the top edge of the page and gluing the sides and bottom to another sheet of the same size paper. Glue a tab to the top edge of your journaling page so it's easy to pull out.
Be sure you and your little monster remember this "let's pretend" holiday forever—and pass on the page idea to other monster lovers!